Различные пути преодоления заниженной самооценки

Различные пути преодоления заниженной самооценки

[10] “Ýêëåòèçì - ïîçèöèÿ çàêëþ÷àþùàÿñÿ â òîì, ÷òî â êàæäîì íàïðàâëåíèè ëè÷íîñòè åñòü ÷òî-òî öåííîå äëÿ èçó÷åíèÿ è ïîíèìàíèÿ ïîâåäåíèÿ ÷åëîâåêà.” (Õüåëë Ë., Çèãëåð Ä. Ñ.604.)

[11]  “Ïîäõîä, ñîãëàñíî êîòîðîìó ïîä÷åðêèâàåòñÿ çíà÷èìîñòü êàê èíäèâèäóàëüíûõ îòëè÷èé, òàê è     ñèòóàöèîííûõ ôàêòîðîâ â îáúÿñíåíèè ïîâåäåíèÿ.” (Õüåëë Ë., Çèãëåð Ä. Ñ.604.)

[12] À.Â.Ïåòðîâñêèé, Ì.Ã.ßðîøåâñêèé. Ïñèõîëîãèÿ. Ñëîâàðü. Ì., Èçäàòåëüñòâî ïîëèòè÷åñêîé ëèòåðàòóðû. 1990. Ñ.352.

[13] “Ðåôåðåíòíàÿ ãðóïïà – ðåàëüíàÿ èëè óñëîâíàÿ ñîöèàëüíàÿ îáùíîñòü, ñ êîòîðîé èíäèâèä ñîîòíîñèò ñåáÿ êàê ñ ýòàëîíîì, è íà íîðìû, ìíåíèÿ, öåííîñòè è îöåíêè êîòîðîé îí îðèåíòèðóåòñÿ â ñâîåì ïîâåäåíèè è â ñàìîîöåíêå.” (À.Â. Ïåòðîâñêèé, Ì.Ã. ßðîøåâñêèé. Ñ.86.)

[14] Ó. Äæåéìñ. Ïñèõîëîãèÿ. Ì., Ïåäàãîãèêà. 1991. Ñ.86.

[15] “Ýòè÷åñêîå èëè ìîðàëüíîå îáðàçîâàíèå â ñòðóêòóðå ëè÷íîñòè: ïðåäñòàâëÿåò ñîáîé

     èíòåðíàëèçèðîâàííóþ èíäèâèäóóìîì ñèñòåìó ñîöèàëüíûõ íîðì è ñòàíäàðòîâ ïîâåäåíèÿ,

     ïîëó÷åííóþ îò ðîäèòåëåé ïîñðåäñòâîì ïîîùðåíèÿ è íàêàçàíèÿ.” (Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.156.)

[16] Skinner B.F., About Beheviorism (New York: Knopf, 1974.)

[17] “Áèõåâèîðèçì – íàïðàâëåíèå â àìåðèêàíñêîé ïñèõîëîãèè ÕÕ â., îòðèöàþùåå ñîçíàíèå êàê

     ïðåäìåò íàó÷íîãî èññëåäîâàíèÿ è ñâîäÿùåå ïñèõèêó ê ðàçëè÷íûì ôîðìàì ïîâåäåíèÿ, ïîíÿòîãî

     êàê ñîâîêóïíîñòü ðåàêöèé îðãàíèçìà íà ñòèìóëû îêðóæàþùåé ñðåäû.” (À.Â. Ïåòðîâñêèé, Ì.Ã.

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[18] Bandura A., “Self-Efficacy Mechanism in Human Agency”, American Psycholgist 37 (1982): 122-147.

[19] Bandura A., “Regulation of Cognitive Processes Through Perceived Self-Efficacy”, Developmental

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[20] Ìèñþðèíà Ò.Ý. Ïðåîäîëåíèå íåàäåêâàòíîé ñàìîîöåíêè ó ñòàðøèõ ïîäðîñòêîâ â ïðîöåññå èõ

     ïðèîáùåíèÿ ê îáùåñòâåííî-ïîëåçíîé äåÿòåëüíîñòè. Àëìà-Àòà. 1978. Ñ.16.

[21] Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.169.

[22] Rogers C.R., “A Theory of Therapy, Personility and Interpersonal Relationship, As Developed in The

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[23]  “Ïðîïðèóì - ýòî âñå àñïåêòû ÷åëîâåêà, äåëàþùèå åãî óíèêàëüíîé ëè÷íîñòüþ. Îí îòîáðàæàåò

     òàêæå ïîëîæèòåëüíîå, ñîçèäàòåëüíîå è ðàçâèâàþùèåñÿ êà÷åñòâà ÷åëîâå÷åñêîé ïðèðîäû.” (Ë.

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[24] Allport G.W., The Person in Psychology. Selected Essays (Boston.: Beacon Press, 1968), 105    

[25] Fromm E., Escape From Freedom (New York: Avon, 1941-1956), 163.

[26] Òàì æå. Ñ.191.

[27] Òàì æå. Ñ.208.

[28] Maslow A.H., Morivation and Personality, 3rd ed. (New York: Harper and Row, 1987.)

[29] Ñì. Êîí È.Ñ. Ïñèõîëîãèÿ ðàííåé þíîñòè. Ì., Ïðîñâåùåíèå. 1989. Ñ.105.

[30] Ñì. Êîí È.Ñ. Ñ.102.

[31] Maurice Vagner, The Sensation of Being Somebody (Grand Rapids, MI.: Zondervan Publishing House,

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[32] Ýòî âûðàæåíèå áóäåò èñïîëüçîâàòüñÿ â äàííîé ðàáîòå êàê òåðìèí, óïîòðåáë¸ííûé Ä.Ìàêäàóýëëîì

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[33] Òàì æå. Ñ.101.

[34] James D. Mallory, Stanley C. Baldwin, The Kink and I ( Grand Rapids, MI.: Zondervan Publishing

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[35] Äæîø Ìàêäàóýëë. Ñ.102.

[36] “Êîìïåòåíòíîñòü - ïñèõîñîöèàëüíîå êà÷åñòâî, îçíà÷àþùåå ñèëó è óâåðåííîñòü, èñõîäÿùèå èç

÷óâñòâà ñîáñòâåííîé óñïåøíîñòè è ïîëåçíîñòè, ÷òî äàåò ÷åëîâåêó îñîçíàíèå ñâîåé ñïîñîáíîñòè ýôôåêòèâíî âçàèìîäåéñòâîâàòü ñ îêðóæåíèåì.” (Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.265.)

[37] Äæîø Ìàêäàóýëë. Ñ.103.

[38] “Ñòàäèÿ, íà ïðîòÿæåíèè êîòîðîé ýíåðãèÿ ëèáèäî äðåìëåò è âíèìàíèå ñîñðåäîòî÷åíî íà ðàçâèòèè

     èíòåðåñîâ è íàâûêîâ â îáùåíèè ñî ñâåðñòíèêàìè òîãî æå ïîëà.” (Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.155.)

[39] Erikson E.H., Childhood and Society, 2nd ed. (New York: Norton, 1963), 273.

[40] Àâäååâà Í.Í. Ðàçâèòèå îáðàçà ñåáÿ ó ìëàäåíöà. Ì., 1982. Ñ.9,11.

[41] Óðîâåíü ïðèòÿçàíèé – ñòåïåíü òðóäíîñòè öåëåé, êîòîðûå ñòàâèò ïåðåä ñîáîé ÷åëîâåê.

    (À.Â.Ïåòðîâñêèé, Ì.Ã.ßðîøåâñêèé. Ñ.352.)

[42] Ó.Äæåéìñ. Ñ.91.

[43] Ó.Äæåéìñ. Ñ.92.

[44] Ê.Ñ. Õîëë, Ã. Ëèíäñåé. Òåîðèè ëè÷íîñòè. Ì., ÊÑÏ+. 1997. Ñ.665.

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[46] Tellegen A., Lykken D.T., Bouchard T.J. et al., “Personality Similarity in Twins Raised Apart and

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[48] Frank D. Cox, Human Lntimacy. Marriage the Family and it’s Meaming (West Pablishing Company,

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[49] Òàì æå. Ñ.432.

[50] Àâäååâà Í.Í. Ñ.22.

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[53] Æóòèêîâà Í.Â. Ïñèõîëîãè÷åñêèå óðîêè îáûäåííîé æèçíè. Ì., Ïðîñâåùåíèå. 1990. Ñ.124.

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ïîäðàçóìåâàåìîé íîðìû, áóäü òî íîðìû ïñèõè÷åñêîãî çäîðîâüÿ, ïðàâà, êóëüòóðû èëè ìîðàëè.” (È.Ñ.Êîí. Ñ.237.)

[55] Ñì. Æóòèêîâà Í.Â. Ñ.122-124.

[56] Æóòèêîâà Í.Â. Ñ.125.

[57] Äæåéìñ ×. Äîáñîí. Ñ.187.

[58] Lawrence B., “Rosenfield, Beauty and Business”, New Mexico: Business Jornal 4 (1979): 23.

[59] Mark L. Knapp, Interpersonal Communication and Human Relationships (Boston: Allyn and Bacon,

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[63] Äæåéìñ ×. Äîáñîí. Ñ.183-185.        

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[66] Þ.Á. Ãèïïåíðåéòåð,  À.À. Ïóçûðåé. Ñ.138.

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       -Íåíñè Âàí Ïåëò. Ìû òîëüêî íà÷èíàåì. Çàîêñêèé, Èñòî÷íèê æèçíè. 1997. Ñ.18-38.

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[68] Íåíñè Âàí Ïåëò. Ìû òîëüêî íà÷èíàåì. Çàîêñêèé, Èñòî÷íèê æèçíè. 1997. Ñ.27.

[69] Âàæíî îòìåòèòü, ÷òî êàê êîíôîðìèçì, òàê è äåâèàíòíîå ïîâåäåíèå ìîãóò èìåòü èíóþ ïðè÷èíó è ïðîèñõîæäåíèå. Ìû äàëåêè îò òîãî, ÷òîáû êàæäîìó ïðîÿâëåíèþ ïîâåäåíèÿ ñòàâèòü îäèí è òîò æå äèàãíîç. Êàê áûëî óæå ñêàçàíî âûøå, çàíèæåííàÿ ñàìîîöåíêà îïðåäåëÿåòñÿ íå ïî îäíîìó èëè íåñêîëüêèì ïðèçíàêàì, à ïî ñîâîêóïíîñòè ïðèçíàêîâ è ÷àñòîòå èõ ïðîÿâëåíèÿ â èäåíòè÷íûõ óñëîâèÿõ.

[70] Çäåñü íåîáõîäèìî ïðîâåñòè ãðàíèöó ìåæäó ñàìîóòâåðæäåíèåì, êàê ïðîÿâëåíèåì çàíèæåííîé

ñàìîîöåíêè è åñòåñòâåííûì ïîèñêîì çíà÷èìîñòè, êîòîðûé â òîé èëè èíîé ìåðå ïðèñóù êàæäîìó ÷åëîâåêó. Íóæíî îòìåòèòü, ÷òî ýòîò âîïðîñ çàñëóæèâàåò åùå îäíîé  òàêîé æå äèïëîìíîé ðàáîòû, è â ðàìêàõ äàííîãî èññëåäîâàíèÿ ðàçîáðàòü åãî ïîäðîáíî íå ïðåäñòàâëÿåòñÿ âîçìîæíûì. Ìû óïîìÿíåì ëèøü îñíîâíîé ìîìåíò: ãëàâíîå îòëè÷èå çàêëþ÷àåòñÿ íå â èñêëþ÷èòåëüíûõ îñîáåííîñòÿõ êàêîãî-òî èç íèõ, à â èíòåíñèâíîñòè è âîâëå÷åííîñòè ñðåäñòâ, à èìåííî, ÷åëîâåê ñ çàíèæåííîé ñàìîîöåíêîé ñàìîóòâåðæäàåòñÿ â ãîðàçäî áîëüøåé ñòåïåíè è èñïîëüçóåò ãîðàçäî áîëüøå ñðåäñòâ äëÿ ýòîãî.

[71] Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.154.

[72] Freud S., The  Ego and The Mechanisms of Defence (New York: Internatonal Universities Press,

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[73] Cramer P., “The Development Of Defense mechanisms”, Journal of Personality 55 (1987): 597-614.

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[75] “Àñïåêò ñòðóêòóðû ëè÷íîñòè, âñå ñîäåðæàíèå êîòîðîãî ÿâëÿåòñÿ óíàñëåäîâàííûì; ïðèñóòñòâóåò ñ

ðîæäåíèÿ è çàêðåïëåíî â êîíñòèòóöèè èíäèâèäóóìà. Èä ÷óâñòâåííî, èððàöèîíàëüíî è ñâîáîäíî îò êàêèõ áû òî íè áûëî îãðàíè÷åíèé.” ( Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.154.)

[76] Ââèäó òîãî, ÷òî ýòîò çàùèòíûé ìåõàíèçì áûë îïèñàí íå Ôðåéäîì, à Àäëåðîì, ìû íå âêëþ÷èëè åãî â îñíîâíîé ñïèñîê ìåõàíèçìîâ çàùèòû.

[77] Èîàíí Êðîíøòàäñêèé. Ìûñëè õðèñòèàíèíà î ïîêàÿíèè è ñâÿòîì ïðèøåñòâèè. Èçäàíèå

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[81] È.Ñ.Êîí Ñ.101.

[82] Ê. Ëüþèñ Ñ.182.

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[86] Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð Ñ.249.

[87] È.Ñ. Êîí. Ñ.102.

[88] Ò.å. âëèÿåò íà âòîðîå îñíîâàíèå, íà êîòîðîì áàçèðóåòñÿ ñàìîîöåíêà. Äåâèàíòíîå ïîâåäåíèå

     ìåíüøå âëèÿåò íà ôîðìèðîâàíèå ÷óâñòâà êîìïåòåíòíîñòè è åùå ìåíüøå - íà îùóùåíèå ñåáÿ

     ëþáèìûì.

[89] È.Ñ.Êîí. Ñ.254.

[90]  íåêîòîðûõ ñëó÷àÿõ, äëÿ ñîêðàùåíèÿ îáúåìà ìàòåðèàëà, ìû ðàññìîòðèì ëèøü îáùèå ïðèíöèïû

    òåðàïèè çàíèæåííîé ñàìîîöåíêè.

[91] Ìèñþðèíà Ò.Ý. Ñ.4.

[92] Õüåëë Ë. Çèãëåð Ä. Ñ.362.

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     çàáðàñûâàòü ìÿ÷ â êîëüöî ñ ïîìîùüþ ìûñëåííîãî ïðåäñòàâëåíèÿ, äîñòèãëè ðåçóëüòàòîâ, áëèçêèõ ñ òåìè ñòóäåíòàìè, êîòîðûå äåéñòâèòåëüíî òðåíèðîâàëèñü çàáðàñûâàòü ìÿ÷, êðîìå òîãî, ðåçóëüòàòû çíà÷èòåëüíî îòëè÷àëèñü îò ðåçóëüòàòîâ ñòóäåíòîâ, êîòîðûå ñîâñåì íå òðåíèðîâàëèñü.

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[97] Kelly  G. A., Theory of Personality: The Psycology of Personal Constructs (New York: Norton, 1963)

[98] “Êàòåãîðèÿ ìûøëåíèÿ, (Personal construct), ïîñðåäñòâîì êîòîðîé ÷åëîâåê èíòåðïðåòèðóåò èëè èñòîëêîâûâàåò ñâîé æèçíåííûé îïûò. Ïî êðàéíåé ìåðå, òðè ýëåìåíòà íåîáõîäèìû äëÿ ôîðìèðîâàíèÿ êîíñòðóêòà – äâà èç íèõ äîëæíû âîñïðèíèìàòüñÿ êàê ñõîæèå, à òðåòèé ýëåìåíò äîëæåí âîñïðèíèìàòüñÿ êàê îòëè÷íûé îò ýòèõ äâóõ.” (Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.476.)

[99] “Òåðàïèÿ ôèêñèðîâàííîé ðîëè (Fixed-role therapy) - ìåòîä ïñèõîòåðàïèè, ðàçðàáîòàííûé Êåëëè è íàïðàâëåííûé íà òî, ÷òîáû ïîìî÷ü êëèåíòàì ïî-íîâîìó èíòåðïðåòèðîâàòü ñåáÿ è ñâîè æèçíåííûå ñèòóàöèè. Êëèåíòîâ ïîáóæäàþò æèòü è äåéñòâîâàòü â ñîîòâåòñòâèè ñ íîâîé ðîëüþ, êàê â òåðàïåâòè÷åñêîì îêðóæåíèè, òàê è âíå íåãî.” (Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ476.)

[100] “Î÷åðê ôèêñèðîâàííîé ðîëè (Fixed-role sketch) - îïèñàíèå ëè÷íîñòè âûìûøëåííîãî èíäèâèäà, ðàçðàáîòàííîå ñ öåëüþ ïîìî÷ü êëèåíòó èíòåðïðåòèðîâàòü ñåáÿ èíà÷å, òàê, ÷òîáû îí ìîã ëó÷øå îáðàùàòüñÿ ñ ðàçëè÷íûìè æèçíåííûìè ñèòóàöèÿìè.” (Ë. Õüåëë, Ä. Çèãëåð. Ñ.476.)

[101] Kelly G., The Psychology of Personal Constructs, Vols.1 and 2, (New York: Norton, 1955).

[102] Epting F.R., Personal Construct Counseling and Psychotherapy (Chichester, Eng.: Wiley, 1984).

[103] Adler A., What Life Should Mean to You? (Boston: Little Brown, 1931), 248.

[104] Äæåéìñ ×. Äîáñîí. Ñ.193.

[105] Í. Âàí Ïåëò. Ñ.33.

[106] Äæåéìñ ×. Äîáñîí. Ñ.194-195.

[107] Í. Âàí Ïåëò. Ñ.37.

[108] Epting F.R., Personal Construct Counseling and Psychotherapy (Chichester, Eng.: Wiley, 1984).

[109] Ìàéåðñ Ä. Ñ.183-186.

[110] Ìàéåðñ Ä. Ñ.184.

[111]  ýòîé ñâÿçè ìîæíî óïîìÿíóòü àäëåðîâñêóþ êîíöåïöèþ êîìïåíñèðîâàíèÿ, êîãäà ïåðåä ÷åëîâåêîì ñòàâÿòñÿ âûñîêèå äëÿ äîñòèæåíèÿ öåëè. Íàïðàøèâàåòñÿ âîïðîñ: ÷òî áóäåò ñ è áåç òîãî íèçêîé ñàìîîöåíêîé ÷åëîâåêà, åñëè îí íå ñóìååò ïðåîäîëåòü ñåáÿ è äîñòèãíóòü óñïåõà â äðóãîé äåÿòåëüíîñòè?

[112] Ìàéåðñ Ä. Ñ.32.

[113] Á.Ñ.Áðàòóñü, Â.Ë.Âîåíêîâ Ñ.Ë.Âîðîáüåâ è äð. Íà÷àëà õðèñòèàíñêîé ïñèõîëîãèè. Ì., Íàóêà. 1995.

[114] Ðîëëî Ìåé. Ñ.126.

[115] “Ñàìîàêòóàëèçèðóþùèåñÿ ëþäè – ëþäè, êîòîðûå óäîâëåòâîðèëè ñâîè äåôèöèòíûå ïîòðåáíîñòè è

ðàçâèëè ñâîé ïîòåíöèàë íàñòîëüêî, ÷òî ìîãóò ñ÷èòàòüñÿ â âûñøåé ñòåïåíè çäîðîâûìè ëþäüìè.” (Ë. Õüåëë Ä. Çèãëåð Ñ.524.)

[116] Òàì æå Ñ.433.

[117] Ðîáåðò Ìàê–Ãè. Ïîèñê çíà÷èìîñòè. Ñàíêò–Ïåòåðáóðã, Ëîãîñ. 1994. Ñ.34–46.

[118] Òàì æå, Ñ.90.

[119] Å.Óàéò. Íàãëÿäíûå óðîêè Õðèñòà. Çàîêñêèé, Èñòî÷íèê Æèçíè. 1995. Ñ.151.

[120] Ðèñòî Ñàíòàëà. Ìåññèÿ â Íîâîì Çàâåòå â ñâåòå ðàââèíèñòè÷åñêèõ ïèñàíèé. Ñàíêò-Ïåòåðáóðã

    Áèáëèÿ äëÿ âñåõ. 1996. Ñ.145.

[121] Íåîáõîäèìî îòìåòèòü, ÷òî íåçàâèñèìîñòü îò ìíåíèé äðóãèõ âîâñå íå îçíà÷àåò ïîëíîå

èãíîðèðîâàíèå ñîâåòîâ è ìíåíèé îêðóæàþùèõ. Ðå÷ü çäåñü èäåò ëèøü îá îñâîáîæäåíèè îò ôàòàëüíîé çàâèñèìîñòè ñàìîîöåíêè îò ìíåíèé äðóãèõ ëþäåé.

[122] Ðîáåðò Ñ. Ìàê-Ãè. Ñ.72.

[123] Äâåíàäöàòü øàãîâ è äâåíàäöàòü òðàäèöèé. A.A.W.S. Inc., Íüþ-Éîðê. 1989. Ñ.26.

[124] Rogers C.R., Client - Centered Therapy In I.l.Kutush, A.Wolf, Eds., Psycho-therapist’s Casebook (San

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[125] Äâåíàäöàòü øàãîâ è äâåíàäöàòü òðàäèöèé. A.A.W.S. Inc., Íüþ-Éîðê. 1989. Ñ.31,41.

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